England : Emily Swanson (Final Reflections)
Final Reflections
Oftentimes, I think we travel in hopes of finding/experiencing something that will fill some sort of longing within us, because really, we are all in search of contentment. What’s become more concrete for me since arriving here in London and traveling to other places in Europe is that we as humans are all looking for community. We could have every material thing we’ve ever wanted, but if we don’t have people in our lives to celebrate our joys or mourn our loses, things can feel pretty bleak. It is our connections that make our days meaningful.
One of the simplest examples of this I’ve experienced takes place on tube. Within the span of less than an hour, you see hundreds of people all on their way to work or other appointments. Everyone is so occupied within their own minds while also sticking to the social norms of not engaging with other passengers. But, at the next stop a passenger steps on with their dog. As soon as the puppy sets foot on the train, everyone’s eyes go to it, and you begin to see a person’s façade soften. There are smiles. Sometimes even laughs. Things you don’t see too often on the underground. This simple interaction stays with me throughout the day, because it makes me feel connected.
Living abroad has made me even more grateful for the people in my life who I can be my authentic self with. Those who enjoy spending time with me. Those who can make me laugh. Studying abroad has also forced me outside of my comfort zone – to accept that it’s okay to embarrass myself as long as I am staying true to my values and working to be a more empathetic person. So, my advice to you is go for it. Don’t let yourself talk you out of doing something transformative. Change is good. And as a professor once told me, embarrassment means you’re growing, so go embarrass yourself.
Emily Swanson
Major: Business – Marketing; Certificate in Graphic Design
Hometown: Kiel, Wisconsin
Program: IES Direct Enrollment – City St George’s, University of London